Did you give a new years resolution? Pledge to make something change? Promise someone that you would do something? I know alot of people say they are gonna loose weight, quit smoking or simply eat better.
Here's a secret for all those who have... Its not gonna work, not this year either. Why? Couse you told people. Yea I know, thats what fucks it up. Just trust me here, if you want to make a change, and then tell people about that change, it wont happen, couse your brain, just like mine and everyone elses, is stupid.
What happens is that when informing the general public, in other words friends and family, that you are gonna start loosing weight/quit smoking, they get happy for you (one would hope), and you get happy couse they do, and thus, your brain get the happiness it wants, making you feel like you have already accomplished your goal, making it far less likely you'll even start.
Go ahead and look it up, its a proven fact, that giving big resolutions to people, about tasks that are hard to accomplish, is even harder to make happen, after you made it official.
In conclusion, dont make any fuckin promises you wont be able to keep.
I made a simple promise... I promised I would do what ever I could, to keep breathing for the foreseeable future. Its not gonna be hard to keep that one I can tell ya. Or atleast thats what I'm hoping... But if I should fail in this promise...
Beyond promises and vows and what not, I hope this year will be better then the previous one, that something new and different happens, something perhaps I am responsible for... like say... umm... I dont know, what ever. Something good atleast.
But like in my previous post, I know bad shit is gonna happen, it always does, I just hope it wont be so bad that I forget to breath.
I'll leave you with a small gif to brighten your day.
Cya
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